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NAVIGATING HOLIDAY CUSTODY ARRANGEMENTS: A GUIDE FOR (AND NEARLY DIVORCED) PARENTS



The holiday season can be a challenging time for divorced parents and their children. As

family law attorneys, it is our duty to ensure that care and contact arrangements are

handled with sensitivity, keeping the best interests of the children at the forefront. Here

are some key considerations to help navigate this period smoothly:


1. Early Planning and Communication

Start discussions about holiday schedules well in advance. This allows both parents to

plan accordingly and reduces last-minute conflicts. Refer to your parenting agreement or court order as a baseline, but be open to adjustments that accommodate special plans or traditions.


In matters where there is no parenting agreement or court order, it is best to rely on the

recommendations of psychologists and social workers to determine reasonable

and fair contact over the festive period.


2. Prioritising the Childs Well-being

Consider the age and preferences of the children. Younger children may need more

stability and routine, while older children might have specific wishes about how they

spend their holidays. Listening to their voices will assist in making emotionally supportive arrangements.


3. Flexibility and Compromise

While adhering to agreed schedules is important, flexibility can go a long way in

ensuring a harmonious holiday season. If one parent requests a change, try to

accommodate it, and expect the same consideration in return.


4. Clear and Positive Communication

Maintain open lines of communication with your co-parent. Discuss any changes or

concerns calmly and respectfully. This sets a positive example for the children and helps

reduce their stress during the holidays.


5. Legal Considerations

Ensure that any changes to the custody arrangement are documented and agreed upon

by both parties. This helps in avoiding misunderstandings and further conflict.


6. Creating New Traditions

Parents are encouraged to create new holiday traditions that can be enjoyed in both

households. This can help children feel more secure and excited about the holidays,

despite the changes in family dynamics.


7. Professional Support

Sometimes, the holiday season can bring up unresolved emotions for both parents and

children. Suggesting professional support, such as counselling, can be beneficial in

navigating these feelings and ensuring a positive holiday experience for everyone

involved.


By focusing on these principles, we can help our clients create a holiday environment

that is joyful and stress-free for their children, despite the challenges of divorce.

Remember, the goal is to ensure that the children feel loved and secure, no matter how

the holiday schedule is arranged.

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